How to Recognize and Protect Yourself from a Bad Boss

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By tammyswallow

Think a laid back boss can be fun to work for? Think again.
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Think a laid back boss can be fun to work for? Think again.
Bad bosses can set bad examples by gossiping.
Bad bosses can set bad examples by gossiping.
A bad boss won't supply the tools and materials needed to do a job.
A bad boss won't supply the tools and materials needed to do a job.

Red Flags During the Interview

More than 82% of employees currently report being unhappy with their working conditions and site a bad boss as the cause of their displeasure. With the economy in a slump and a serious job shortage in the U.S., most people just accept poor working conditions due to a lack of options. Many employees do not complain in fear of retaliation.

A bad boss isn't easy to spot, but working for one will have lasting effects on your daily life and future career prospects. They come in many forms from incompetent slackers to evil egotistical maniacs with a master plan. How can you tell if the person interviewing you is a bad boss?

Many applicants seeking a job focus intently on performing well during an interview and fail to consider whether the boss and the company is one they would really prefer to work for. Potential bosses are on their best behavior during the interview process, however there are things he or she may do that indicate they are a bad boss.

How to Screen a Potential Boss

  • During an interview, pay particular attention to how this potential employer treats existing employees within the company, especially if your interview is conducted in a group setting. Take notice to whether he or she listens to the input of other employees and if they seem supportive or dismissive. A bad boss will not encourage other staff members to ask questions or finish a train of thought.
  • Directly ask a potential boss what his or her short and long term goals are for the company. If you get a cookie cutter answer, or no answer- you probably won't want to work for this individual due to his or her lack of dedication, foresight, and organization.
  • If a potential boss keeps you waiting for your interview, it can indicate he or she has time management deficiencies or they don't respect your time. You can expect this potential boss to treat customers this way also. If you will be directly working with customers, this lack of time management and respect for others can impact your effectiveness in pleasing customers.
  • Ask questions! If your potential boss doesn't consider your questions thoughtfully, looks at his or her watch, acts distracted or uninterested, it is a red flag. Chat up any employees you can talk to and ask them what they like about their jobs. If they roll their eyes or say run for the door- he or she is probably a bad boss.

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Welcome to the Bad Boss

If you missed the red flags during the interview and initial correspondence, it is likely you will soon find out that you are working for a bad boss. There are seven classic types of "bad bosses" and chances are you can easily spot which category your taskmaster falls into. Unfortunately, bosses may be a combination of these categories, making dealing with them even more difficult.

The Dictatorial Control Freak

This boss is the "hovering" type who must oversee every detail of every project. They can be found looking over your shoulder at the computer to track your progress and your activities. This type of boss can be particularly defeating as they want tasks done their way even if there is a more efficient way to do them. Their faithless attitudes leave employees uninspired and unheard. If you work for a control freak, it is important to not them bully or intimidate you. To survive, you must stand up for yourself and always be ready to defend your work product and probably your integrity.

The Incompetent Slacker

The incompetent slacker usually lands his or her position from sheer luck, inheritance, knowing someone in the company, or by smooching the right behinds. It is obvious to everyone this person is winging it on a daily basis and this boss is usually clueless about running the company. As a boss, the slacker rarely interferes with an employee's day to day tasks as he or she does not have a clue as to what needs to be done or how. This boss succeeds only because he or she has the right people supporting him. In times of success, this boss will also take all the credit. It is important to have a clear job description in writing and make sure you comply with your duties. Eventually this slacker's luck will run out. This boss doesn't know enough to make well thought out decisions for the company. To keep your job, it is best to "suggest" things to this boss when he is way off base and let him think the great idea was his. 

The Ostrich

The ostrich is the paranoid boss who fears his or her responsibilities and upper level management. He or she is the nervous type who double checks everything done by lower level employees. He or she will avoid controversy and try to keep staff on track to avoid rocking the proverbial boat. Should you have a question about a project, you cannot expect this boss to give you a quick answer as he will have to triple check the answer with upper management. His or her lack of confidence may overshadow any work done by his employees. To deal with the ostrich, it is best to always double check your own work to prevent anxiety and embarrassment to the department.

Mr. Penny Pincher

Normally, the Penny Pincher boss is either the owner of the company or a supervisor of a company under tight budget restrictions. He or she limits the amount of money spent on needed office supplies and always has a quick excuse ready for anyone seeking a raise. If this boss is in a profit industry, the best way to deal with him is to demonstrate your requests for supplies or raises with detailed analysis on savings to the company or through your own accomplishments in making the company money.

The Egomaniac

This boss works very hard to uphold his own image and he does not pay much attention to those he tramples on his way to the top. While he will pulverize anyone who gets in his way, he soon forgets those who helped him get to where he is. To effectively deal with this boss, it would be helpful for you to be the president of his fan club at the office. If he or she is competent and worthy of respect, supporting this egomaniac may take you up the corporate ladder. If he is not respectable, it could hurt your working reputation to be associated with this boss.

The Passive Aggressive Boss

Probably the MOST frustrating boss of all, he or she may seem very nice and laid back when you first meet him and you may think he or she is even cool. You will first get the sense that this boss really goes the extra mile to be "nice". All at once this boss has a surprising change in behavior similar to pouting. These bosses have difficulty in saying what they really want and feel but expect things to be done their way. These bosses have a true personality disorder that cause them to be passive and agreeable one minute, and stubborn and resentful the next. They purposely procrastinate with tools needed to get the job done in silent protest, yet they will never verbalize the fact that they are angry. They will leave you guessing what you did wrong on a daily basis. These bosses are nice to your face and later you will realize that with every problem in the office, he was secretly throwing you under the bus of responsibility. It is best to keep good notes, document everything, and only try to catch this boss on a stable day if you need input. As an employee you must step back from their behavior and realize you are not at fault for their mood changes.

The Evil Boss from the Deepest Depths of Hell

Sadly, there are some very evil people in this world and many of them are bosses. These bosses are bad seeds. These bosses are the liars, embezzlers, con artists, and thieves. Their agenda's rarely have anything to do with the job at hand, but a master plan that goes beyond the work place. If you encounter this boss, you must proceed with caution. These bosses protect their master plan and will demolish anyone who interferes. You must not act until you have documentation of his or her activities and can prove any claim you make. If this person is the owner of the company, it is best you leave before you are implicated and report this boss to authorities. If this person is not the owner, collect your proof and present it to upper management or the proper authorities before this evil boss terminates you.

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Example of a Horrible Boss

The Micro Management Boss- Control Freak

The TOXIC Boss

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What to Do If a Boss Gets Out of Hand

If you are in a situation with a boss who is abusing you there are some things you can do to make your situation more manageable. If speaking directly with your boss does not work, these additional steps may help:

-Speak to the human resource department where you work if you have one. Present your case in a calm manner and don't make accusations you can not prove.

-If there is not a human resource department where you work and the situation is unbearable, contact your local Equal Employment Security Commission. They offer free services and protection to employees in abusive situations. Most offices have an intake form online in which you explain your situation. Once they receive your information, they compile an official report if they think your rights are in danger. The ESC can intervene and offer mediation services between you and your employer and determine to prosecute your employer. This agency handles cases involving a violation of civil rights and most claims must be categorized as discrimination due to race or gender, disability, sexual harassment, and retaliation by the employer towards the employee as punishment.

-Keep a detailed log of all daily activities, accomplishments, failures, and conversations with your boss in a hidden location. Add any thing that may be relevant in your case. These items will help you in your cause and can be vital if you are wrongfully terminated by a bad boss.

-If you are in a dangerous or volatile situation or subject to physical or sexual harassment, consider purchasing a small, undetectable video camera to capture abusive behavior. Many mini cameras are available and can be worn on your clothing disguised as buttons and pens. Voice recordings are not admissible in court if a conversation is recorded without the knowledge and consent of the recorded party.

If you are the victim of a bad boss, it is important to protect yourself and avoid long term harm to your career. Despite a job shortage in the United States, no one deserves to be subject to abusive bosses just to keep a job!

Comments

wlionpage profile image

wlionpage 3 months ago

Oh..such a wonderful hub, I have noticed all positions Thanks

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Sunshine625 Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

Superb hub! Excellent details and descriptions. I am lucky enough to never have had a bad boss. I actually married two of my bosses (not at the same time) so they must have done something right. Voted UP among others!!

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lord de cross 3 months ago

Magnifecent Tammy,

I should fire my boss then! What do I know is that what goes around, comes around..and it applies to them. The momentum of hatred they build leads them to a 'point of no return,' and eventually they will fall. Just one example: My ex boss got so fat, that his wife left him, and his sedentary life led him to the hospital and so on..! Thanks for putting this effort so well Tammy!

LORD

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albertsj Level 5 Commenter 3 months ago

Ugh, I've had my share of nightmare bosses, to say the least. And they're no better than the rest of us. They merely act that way. Good, and useful hum Tammy!

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Marcy Goodfleisch Level 7 Commenter 3 months ago

You have captured so many of the typical personality types! I love the humor you injected in what is also a very grim (and real) topic. I agree that what goes around comes around, but it sure takes a while for it to happen sometimes, doesn't it? Great hub - voted up, useful and interesting.

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alocsin Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

I like that you not only point out the qualities of a bad boss but how to deal with the problem. Voting this Up and Useful.

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hoteltravel Level 5 Commenter 3 months ago

Well-researched and neatly put. Will share it with employed friends. When dealing with a bad boss, humor is one thing that makes it bearable. Voting up, useful and interesting.

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Frank Atanacio Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

This hub should be posted on Job Boards and college campus boards yeah a super hub :)

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Ardie Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

Tammy, I couldnt imagine working for a bad boss - it would make every day so difficult to start! I've been lucky that all my bosses have been super great and very understanding. As a matter of fact, lots of people ask me why I'm still in my deadend security job. I tell them its because I can do ANYTHING and my boss understands - if I need time off for family my boss encourages it, and if I call off sick I dont get reprimanded or a difficult time for it. He is a great boss and I go out of my way to be a loyal employee :D BUT when the time comes to look for a more perm position I will look for your warning signs :)

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fpherj48 Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

Tammy...Marking this hub up, useful & interesting. You've covered this topic extremely well.

A not-so-well-kept-secret of major corporations is that they pay big bucks to hire people like myself to run seminars specifically geared toward training Upper & middle mgmt for the EXPRESS purpose of keeping their "feet on the ground." I say this, because despite being trained, tested and groomed to be the "ideal boss," so to speak...human nature is an enormous reality.

What you will find is that regardless of age, education, background and/or experience.... place authority and power in a person's hands and the temptation to abuse it and use it to one's advantage and manipulation is a strong force.

Unfortunate & often difficult to deal with or maneuver around, but it is what it is. Your suggestions should definitely be jotted down!

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golfcart34 Level 2 Commenter 3 months ago

This was a fantastic hub! I had the displeasure of having to deal with the passive aggressive boss and ever since getting the boot from her I couldn't be happier. I also made sure to document everything as before I disclosed a disability I never had a problem with this person.

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Cardisa Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

What about a good guy, very attentive and easy to talk to but have no idea how to run a business? This boss usually owns the business and spends the money without making sure the utilities and staff are paid. He then has to run around finding money for this and that. He has no management skills but will let people know he is the boss.

BTW, that was my boss once.

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daisynicolas Level 4 Commenter 3 months ago

I worked with all these types (LOL) in my lifetime. No wonder I'm a total wreck (sic).

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Nell Rose Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

This is a fantastic hub, and so very true! I had an evil, well, I was going to call her something but better not! so called boss! she was a control freak, everytime I went to get coffee or get another piece of work she would go through my emails, desk drawers and even put my work on the window ledge to check it out! she made at least two other people leave! eventually we both got made redundant! I just wish I had gone to human resources! this hub will help loads of people looking for a new job, and of course a new boss!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks Lord! That is a very funny ancedote. I appreciate your visit and your kind words.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks for reading Jacy. I have had one exceptional boss in my life time and she is an impecible standard for all my other bosses. I just left a job of five years with the boss from hell. I appreciate your comment!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

It certainly does Marcy! Well said. Thanks for reading!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks Alocsin! How awesome of you to notice!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thank you hoteltravel. Humor does make it more bearable in most situations. Practical jokes in the office make for a fun day. Thanks for the vote up!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thank you for your kind words Frank. I appreciate your visit and your comment.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

You are fortunate Ardie. I have had a boss like that in my life. She was a great person of unquestionable integrity. When I was very young, she took it upon herself to polish me. Many people get offended when a boss tries to do this, but in my case I figured I could use the professional help starting out. Working for a bad boss is terrible and you will know one if you find one. In your case I would say if it isn't broken.. don't fix it. There is no shame in ANY kind of hard work.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Wow Fpherj48,

I knew I have sat in many customer service seminars and sessions on morale, but I didn't know about boss grooming. These are NEEDED! I worked for a non profit agency and the lack of leadership and policies was alarming. The home office was based 100 miles away. They turned leadership of this social service agency to one person and never questioned his abilities to lead. I started working there and I was stunned. I was one of 3 employees. No one had done any casework on clients for 6 years. Funders were quickly withdrawing their support because of lack of progress. I would work 40 hours a week and see the other two employees (including the boss) MAYBE 2 hours a week. I was left alone on a daily basis- even for group therapy sessions. I am not certified to be a counselor, but there I was, alone with 30 to 40 men many whom were registered sex offenders. I was doing a "great job" until I started to ask questions about why this was acceptable. People need to protect themselves from these bosses AND businesses.

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The Finance Hub Level 5 Commenter 3 months ago

Great hub, a topic I never really thought about. These days, I own my own company and well, I don't think I'm like the bosses here! I guess I'm a good boss, but then again, I don't even look at myself as a boss. I believe that for a business to thrive, a business owner must look at employees like business partners, all working on a mutual goal to achieve success! Great hub voted up and interesting, hope you enjoy my hubs as well!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks for sharing golfcart34. Working for a passive aggressive boss is one of the worst experiences ever. Their indirect insults are counter productive and make it impossible to get anything done. If she fired you for having a disability you could sue her pants off. I am sorry you also had to go through all of this.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Clueless.. That is bad for business and employees. That had to be very frustrating. Thanks for sharing!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

I have worked for the majority of them as well. This will wreak havok with your nerves for sure. There are few normal bosses left. Thanks for your visit!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Gosh Nell, that doesn't sound like fun. I had a control freak boss who loved to watch me work. It is hard to say what she did when I wasn't there, but I was always around because she didn't want to answer the phone for five minutes while I went to the bathroom.. LOL. Bad bosses make for LONG workdays. Thanks for sharing your story and for your visit.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

I am glad you are a good boss and focus on your business and growth for all. You are a dying breed. :) It is wise to recognize that inspired employees lead to sucess. Thanks for reading and I look forward to reading your hubs as well.

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jainismus Level 5 Commenter 3 months ago

The best way is to be your own boss! But your tips are very useful for those who want to work under a boss. Voted up.

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wonderingwoolley Level 3 Commenter 3 months ago

This is a super informative, well organized, great, fantastic hub! I learned a lot, and will be sharing it with everyone I know who is cursed with an awful boss. Thanks so much!

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Angela Kane Level 3 Commenter 3 months ago

Great hub, the worst bosses are the bullies that try to get under your skin and make your days at work horrible.

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fpherj48 Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

Tammy

How sad and disappointing that you had to experience this lack of proper management fiasco. However, it is so rampant. What you went through is due to....what else?...money. If a company or agency wants to place top-notch, well-qualified Administration, take a guess what's required. TOP-NOTCH Salaries, complete with an ample benefit package.

When the money is tight...OR the "owner" is cheap and greedy, here is a perfect example of "you get what you pay for." Terrible slip-shod situations that have unlimited turnover of staff because they've hired an irresponsible moron to run the ship. There you have it, Tammy. Sad but true.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks jainismus! Now that I am on hubpages, I am TRYING to be my own boss. :) You are sooo right! Thanks for reading this hub!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thank you so much wonderingwooley!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

I agree Angela Kane. These bosses don't deserve their jobs in these hard economic times. There are plenty of people willing to fill their shoes in a way that best serves the company. Thanks so much for reading and commenting.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

It is very true fpherj48. One day I will publish the whole story. It is sad to hear how many other people out there have it bad as well. :(

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Ruchira Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

Such a worthy hub. Every person has a boss and this helps us gain an insight into it. Pssst....I have a forgetful one or should I say a self centered one...lol

Only. Hope he does not read this :)

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

I won't tell him you said that Ruchira. ;) Thanks for your comment and visit!

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ashleyvanillilife 3 months ago

Great Hub, very informative. Thanks so much for sharing. I grabbed a copy of this on my FB wall!! Loved it.

tc,

and the; Top 50 Songs for When You Are In A Bad Mood..( on my FB wall) and now downloading.. Thanks again!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks so much for reading and sharing Ashley! I appreciate that. I hope you enjoy the tunes!

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cclitgirl Level 7 Commenter 3 months ago

I LOVE this! I'm headed to work in just a bit...I'll be thinking of you and this hub, tammy. :)

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iamaudraleigh Level 6 Commenter 3 months ago

Voted up...thank you!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks for reading CClitgirl. Keep an eye on your boss today. :)

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Thanks for reading iamaudraleigh!

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RealHousewife Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

I have worked for a couple of the bosses you described. Ew. It makes life miserable to go to work and I'd dread it before each day....the long walk down the punch in clock hall!! My mantra was "please be in a good mood today! Please be happy today!" lol. (or not lol!).

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lord de cross 3 months ago

hahaha!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

This is the best thing about hubpages RealHouseWife.. NO BOSS!! I am a great boss to me.. but I haven't figured out how to give myself a big fat raise yet. :) Thanks for reading and commenting!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 3 months ago

Lord de Cross.. do you laugh in gest or recognition?

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Astra Nomik Level 6 Commenter 2 months ago

This is a great hub. I recognized a few of the people you described in here. How cool is that? Excellent advice about what bosses to avoid. Basically ...avoid all of them. I guess I'm screwed. LOL.

No, my boss is actually almost decent. :)

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cclitgirl Level 7 Commenter 2 months ago

That's a lot of different types of bosses! Whoa. I've worked - and left - for some of them. Great info here. I just try to do my job and avoid my boss. LOL.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 2 months ago

Thanks for reading Cclitgirl. I have had some whoppers and some good bosses. Right now I have a pretty laid back boss.. ME.. LOL. I appreciate your visit.

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Express10 Level 6 Commenter 2 months ago

Thanks for sharing this hub. I had the ostrich type boss who refused to intervene with a coworker that dodged her work, thereby increasing my workload significantly. The ostrich also refused to talk to a very aggressive, large man known for yelling at customers and coworkers alike. No matter who complained, nothing ever changed. Eventually after creating other sources of income, I quit because I could not endure it any more.

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tammyswallow Hub Author 2 months ago

Thanks for sharing that Express10. These types of bosses are really frustrating. Their lack of leadership creates big problems like this for everyone. I am glad you are no longer dealing with it anymore. People like that will take advantage of the fact that you CAN handle every thing with out his intervention and it is easier to let you do it all than to fix the problem. Thanks for stopping by!

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moonlake Level 7 Commenter 2 months ago

If I had a boss this would be lots of good information. Voted Up.

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Senoritaa Level 6 Commenter 2 months ago

My current one is the first type, and my last one was the second. I guess they all exist everywhere!!!

Great hub!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 2 months ago

Glad you found it moonlake. Congratulations to you on NOT having a boss. LOL! Thanks for reading and commenting!

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tammyswallow Hub Author 2 months ago

Hi Senoritaa,

To bad for you! These bosses can be so difficult to work for. I think you are right.. they are everywhere! I appreciate your visit!

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thesingernurse Level 6 Commenter 6 weeks ago

These are very helpful Tammy. This hub is perfect for everyone - newbies and long-term employees alike. Great job on this one! Voting up and sharing as well! :)

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tammyswallow Hub Author 5 weeks ago

Thanks for stopping by thesingernurse. I appreciate that!

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